Kalam my inspiration

hi dear friends : )

Being rich how cool and awesome it is. You can earn and do invest your balance where you want. I mean with the rich that your are rich in the bank of ideas, creativity, innovation, morally and spiritually and ...................Infinity.................

                                           "Be Beyond Boundaries"

Be rich like APJ Abdul kalam who is one of the best and one in many bests. The day rises with a hope and night comes we probably face night mares too. But who we are in that is the journey to find ourselves. Be rich like in your ideas having no boundaries, it may take much time to do what you want to do your hope and ideas get neglected many times but the one who face the thunderstroms without shelters the one who face to get failed dozens times the one who face emotional weakness  But the one who 'Never Give Up' stands as a great. 

The peoples who are alive like machines and talk about being practical ask them are you sure about all the uncertanities  ''LIKE DEATH'' live your every moment as you don't have all the days to live forever don't panic with the thought but get happy with what you have . Don't rush to achieve anything let the things comes to you as in the order but have a Smile and value that makes you human being. It's a post of high responsibility don't dishonour that . Thanks every one and humanity that not to let you animal in the human body. Live and do what your talent is NATURE GAVE ALL OF US THE TALENT IN IT'S OWN VARIETY. And when from the moment we know that what we are good in we enjoy to do that work called as progress in real sense. 

Richness is the value of Smile and give Smiles. Spread the natural talent you have without a question what you get from that because you will see and have everthing. The world is not too big for us our world is from the honking neighbourer, good friends, our boss, we, family and the momentraily met peoples in which we don't remember the most.  Be What you are and work what you have from that moment you will feel happiest. And when you get happy you will make everyone happy and can help all to smile. Just 70 or 80 or little more or less is our life don't make museum of your name, fame, money and all just live and let them come if they come.

 But ask yourself "ARE YOU ALIVE" every moment and live every moment life is too short too worry and all just Smile and do what you want to and let your natural talent comes out and let it happen. What if you fail just simply nothing  don't worry about it just go and live.

Keep Smiling : ) 

Think Possibility

hi dear friends : )

*Impossible we all hear that and read that but what then possibility is ?

Impossible is just an un attempted try. The final try that we didn't try. Possibility is everything about that last attempt to crack that question. As misery only comes with an unknown answer but what if the question's filtered out and give real thought to it that is it really required to even asked. If it is accept its all the steps that takes us toward that and not misery is the solution as it's just like we mean with misery having sub-conscious approach to get some attention but even that is not the requirement. And "Misery" means sitting in the mid way and thinking that someone will take you to the destination safely but you don't even want to go and that's the fear of the journey's obstacles. Possibility is the attempt to make the fear let out from mind and if death will come accept it with your Smile and that's the right approach to life. When survived you can breath and you can see and have vision and dare to 'Dream' . What if you not survived is the fear . So what's the fear from reality, One absolute day  will  come  when  your  body is  somewhere  and few peoples  will cry and you were buried inside any cabin or your body is in fire and become ash in just moments everyone will go and your memories will go soon , then why to live a life of un completeness. "We are like Sun and don't feel of any necessity for a candle that lit a light to make you visible to you "

"Do what you want to do and live your possibility and what you are is beyond infinity"

keep Smiling : )

Make me Smile

hi dear friends : )

* Find any place that is silent if possible outside your home !  

*Sit on a bench !

*Close your eyes allow your self to get relaxed !

* To get stress free take deep breadth and get more relaxed !

* Remember the moment you Smiled at last what you did !

* If you can imagine the nature the natural smile comes to you !

*Be the kid for few moment and forget everything except this moment and then just smile !

* Be kind and gentle let your self flow with the air and the environment !

* Feel relaxed and free and Smile with your soul  : )

"And one last thing what will you do when you take your finger between your teeth in public hahahhahaha"

Keep Smiling ; MAY YOU ALWAYS SMILE  : )

Mental gym

hi dear friends : )

"We all tackle with the situations understands by our mind and we need to react on that but until the mind is trained well the situations provokes our other reaction elements and in that confusion mind reacts weird so let's see the battle of our mind with us and let's try to get the control on our mind.".

Mind is a great and giant palace in the universe. When we think we know more it's part ; we don't know its a part. No judge can decide his own performance. If the judge tries to concentrate with performance as participant then with the same reference of time that judge can judge the performance and cannot possible on any how at the same time even as judge he judge that the performance is good the complete performance concentration is missing and when the judge concentrate on the performance as participant then the performance cannot be judged. So how to solve this hypothesis with a condition the performance judged by the participant logically along with the same time the performance is made.

Let's try resolving that :

It is genuinely be the  mind that is working well to decision making and we cannot take help as our own self as the participants but what we all have is the reference as time and we get no way to direct our mind but we can do so  as by our performance itself with little practice we know that we need to perform as by our practice and we break the steps as the shapes and numbers to count the steps in our mind Our mind prepares our every upcoming step in the mind to perform and we follow that exactly and the time gap the signal send to our muscles to act and to follow that step and mind prepares for its next move in the act in that what we do by the coordination. We Observe our self in the process and we get the act done. By what we were observing ? The answer is the process itself ! While following the step we do as the mind direct and it direct as it prepares a moment before the act is done as next move or curve, that dancing pattern is the observation of the mind. When mind don't do exactly what the mind is direct our muscles behave a moment wrong act as we do have a strong nerve system in our body and when the process is done wrong it take either more or less time then the decided act. It is the rarest that if we do have a different act in exactly the same time that moment but what if ? Sorry friends no answer for this now but tell me if you do have any of the idea relates i welcome all your idea to solve this question together and also your all the views ; send me your idea on scientistomkareshwar@gmail.com  or you can also share your idea on my twitter handle its- Omkareshwar Jha !

I will wait for your valuable ideas : ) 

Courage Philosophy

hi dear friends : )

If the Courage is the state of mind then the crowd is like waves in the ocean that is neither concentrating at you nor let you concentrate. So it's like to be the ocean who controls all its waves at the surface and really calm at the deep inside. The game is of patience and the way we spark that every little reason they joined you to listen you. watching and observing the world and even then get capable of stand steady and cool and focused with having center for all the peoples listening to us. This is like a comedy show make it entertaining as much as you can the most entertaining act can be easily get focused and all it requires is presence of mind and let it all happen with and all inside the work or the speech you want to tell them. One thing is fixed that If your idea the plan your hard work all for the good and welfare of the public service you are acceptable to the world as it's best.

Keep Smiling :) 

A good thought

hi dear friends : )

"Change is the nature's rule and who will survive during extreme changes creates                                           the new world - Charles Darwin "

Change is few times good and few times not that much good. We are what we choose to be and then we carry it with our long time in our believe till life. But even that's not it. As river makes its ways as the path is we need to make our right path choosed when we are in extreme conditions that is the time of our test from nature the  natural selection for survival and that law is the basis of our morality and the world we are able to see in front of our life it's our choice. We created 'Humanity' on the bricks of  'Morality'  and that strong pillar of our survival is unique. I am glad to say that i am the part of such a great and unique culture on this planet we call our ''mother Earth''    We are in the winds of change either small or big but our values are the strong pillar for our survival i seen that the unique point of science, spirituality, religion and culture is Morality. Keep it and live it. Stay the happiest part of it and live the challenges and have Self Confidence and wish smile on each face of true innocence and truth." The change is natural and we are eternal so not to worry we are the great product of the change" 

Keep Smiling : ) 

Advice for life

hi dear friends : )

 "Never Label Yourself "

"There is no parameter ever designed to know the intelligence in and of a person"

* I know and we all know the fact that we all are born with natural abilities and are highly talented we don't have right instruments  to  bring it out in many that's the reason the discrimination do spread all over because at the peak there is nothing except true  ''Reality'' 

One of the big mistake is Labeling self - 'i can't do that' , ' that's not my job' and killing the hobbies. Killing the hobby is equal like closing all the gates in the chamber to feel safe but are you? 

Genius is the natural gift to all learn and experiencing it is the great way to step up from all the ugly and unfavourable parameters. So never accept labels of on self. Just ready and have open minded. Like Da Vinci who was a Scientist , Painter, Philosopher, Inventor , Biologist and so and so and so . In all that 1 thing is sure the person never made boundary Or labeled himself and reached beyond Excellence. 

''So next time any one say i can't do any particular thing because it can only be done by natural gifted peoples so tell them Nature never discriminate and gave the same to you as in the person you see special. Just try recognizing it'' 

''AS we can't use our door key without reaching to the door'' 

Keep Smiling : )

What is a research

hi dear friends : )

 Today we are going to talk about research so with the sound of the word what is the first thing that comes in mind ???????    There you are no matter what matter you have you need a reason that is good it could be fun or really serious passion. We can't categorize research because it probably never been searched yet so it's a new direction on which one traveled except you.    By your imagination. 

One good logic is enough to work upon the idea called as research. It could be either an incomplete work that you are willing to fulfill or by having completely different angle of observation to create new dimension. 

"Researching mind is curious to have inspiration to do work "

If you want  the answer make the question first your's !

Call it our Victory on getting the answer that feels more good!

And let the mind be free and fly to catch new ideas!

Never Give Up!

" Choose your research with open mindedness. And don't afraid no failure can touch you if you win you became creator or if not happened you are the best expert that can explain about the phenomena "

Keep Smiling : )

Pure life

Hi friends : )

How to change the world is as much simple as much you are dedicated to change it. Can you give smile to someone and all around you that can give you satisfaction. How to change the world is the art that can be categorized as every thing we do and we are doing. Now yes now " If you see someone you know wasting the water and you can make them realize that how valuable it is for some one " Yes we can change the world when we look at the sky and say that i will be the part of my global family not just of few peoples and country but with all means the Cosmos itself Respect is what we want and what the best we can give to praise someone and Smile is something that we can give to all as happiness. You can ask me why i give smile to someone well i say you already do a lot just you don't know as when you want to do your job excellently and want to make it best when it will reach to someone on any how directly or indirectly and they feel good and smile or wrap it for someone and they smile and that's how you get the credit comman you can imagine that in your head in that emotions how satisfactory it is. U noticed that why when we go under sky in the evening or night why it is too calm and gentle why it is so pleasant and satisfied ? Well we all know that every time  we work for each other just we know it very few times i got a person who got inspiration to me as was not my motive and neither i asked or told just in chat with one of my friend i said why to compare yourself and myself yea we all are different and that's the beauty of the Cosmos can a same color or same shape or same metal can make all happy of course not .  We all have different choices accordingly and it should be respected by ourselves. And that's exactly how our qualities are it is like we are mountain and we are  at the peak of it we think how far the stars in the sky is we are not able to see how much high we already gone up and how can we can reach that's why we are thinking so. So their 's no need to compare yourselves with any one just learn from all from falling leaf to a seed that is just sown in the ground.... Next day my that friend came whom i didn't noticed while talking came and told me thanks for inspiration. I got messed up that this also happen that okay it 's about my friend i came to know and my concious action but there are millions of sub concious actions that we do in front of the peoples we don't even know and probably never going to meet again. WOW that's how the sky specially night or evening sky is too gentle as all goods comes and creating that patience that gentleness and that Smile that i wish for you. The world changes with you but can't without you .........

Keep Smiling : )

Help yourself

Hi dear friends,

 Being your own Ideal is a good idea don't you think so.

       Ok so we all know that we all need help of someone at some phases of our life.  Unquestionable most of us go to our parents, Teachers, friends, ideas, mentors and sometime to the gate of god inside us. We all choose our own way but at that moment we want it to share it with someone who can listen please if you excuse me so  i want to say that we were not worried about results of future or the gone past but we are only excuse in present the worse one. Yea  it 's true that we all are similar and values must come from our peoples and our own. So many of us talk to peoples and ask them for help and   its good. But is it enough. I guess no its not ..... 

Who is the one in the problem who is the one who face that situation and even we say no one could understand. Yea it's true that no one will understand until you don't understand. Work for solutions not help is enough work with Patience till aeons. Are you begging for a life with no problems comman  you can never have that either we want or not. So be your counslor because honestly i feel parents will bless you and  support you, Teachers will prepare you; mentor will give you a target and friends will  test you and help you. Love to get challenges and whenever feel low think 

" Is the breadth you take is not a gift of nature is sunrise never waked you up and moon never let you alive in night thus nature not for you its always for you. So how you can loose by having such a great friend why you always look for life's solution why not you learn how much it is possible and why n't you let your energies concentrated in some good efforts and wasting them in your search for answer of your misery why not you go and play innocently why not you accept mistakes as you did in childhood. why n't it's just a moment and not the life. 

Why not you try to smile by helping others and gift them smile. Why not you are your ideal the best one and learn that how to come out from the trap you are in by the help of your elders. Why not worries are like foot wear that you not always wear or that tie that you wear that day. If you were really not abled to do so go and help someone you will feel good. When ever i'm not in good mood i just clean my book selves and my shoes help my mom and try remain silent and patient if that thought came in my mind that i'm useless even then i helped my mom or someone in their routein work by asking them may i help and your loved ones will consider that i promise why not clean the book selves and turn the pages why not just  stop and  Smile : )

Keep smiling and gift smile it's the biggest medicine to recover your originality.

How to like maths

 Hi friends,

      Honestly i love maths . Not as a boring subject of course But as a fun game i play with maths i count the things when ever i enter any where i think about its shape it taken a little practice and huge patience in learning maths because for the same formula you practice well can't be applied to somewhere.  But don't loose hope because mathematics is the subject who repairs your all the mental ability and as we all know its quiet difficult so you have to keep patience an continuity in practice practice every day an revise what you masterd as it helps to increase our speed and its application. Maths work on planning , Algorithm, Quick understanding , logic , intuition and imagination etc. So you may have problems initially but its training of mind so it should be little difficult and that's its flavour. As every difficulty when overcome gather Confidence and courage and less down our panic about the subject *the more you do more you want to do. And here you are at right way take help of elders as most of them are good in calculation and above mention things so observe them and ask if not understood that the fastest technique to learn a subject from core. And give time to theory part like derivations and formulas don't rush to solve questions or panic about its quantity. Because its all like you learn 2 + 2 = 4 and then you can solve every sum. But just take care that you question more don't believe and use blindly the stuff you learn you should know every change that comes in your step and then proceed initially you feel you got tired and worked more and gained less but its not like that as to create a software is difficult and using them is little different but you soon type search engine and found the help as much easily it comes to you that much you have to work behind it and that makes you fast. I suggest initially start with counting as its easy but try count fast every day in bus in class in shop and with in a week you see improvement rest choose books and ask more if not got answer ask it in your home and teachers in friends and if still not got then use google every problem is not required to get solved at once i gave more then weeks but don't stop there find more problems and how so by not stand by but start up and learn. to share your opinion you can mail me on- scientistomkareshwar@gmail.com 

All the best Keep smiling : )

5 ways on how to study Smart !

Hi friends : )

In today's world we all feel very different but aren't we all just say this same things again and again.... Why? 

 work is the play ground of ideas and innovations. So what about study "Study is the art of understanding "

#Here are the 5 Ways to do so : )

Not just focus on hard work it's good not the best. You must know what you have to know and how you have to know that. Then start !

 *First : ) Make  it sense full . It simply means with observing all the facts better                       word     "Analysis "  of your study work. 

*Second : ) Know your boundary. It means we all have seen that there are few peoples in the class who just go out of the boundary and ask the question that don't relate to the topic any how ."Avoid going out your Boundary "

*Third : ) Think out of the box. You may not ask the questions that don't relate the topic but WHAT IF ?? You have to consider your topic as wide as the world around us ."Relate everything to that thing "

*Fourth : ) Use everything to understand . So many times one example is not enough to tell you or make you understand the whole story. So you have to make your own examples. " Use every moment of your life as example for experience"

*Fifth : ) If you are going well Congrats. Use R & D methods. Asking question is not written in text books . If you are Curious enough to know more just go for it . "Expand your limits , learn to Fly"

 .We all study in the most boring ways but few of us knows the trick to study smart. I had seen and of course a part of it. I suggest you to watch "Scott Young" and other giants one in my motivator watch his You tube  videos and you please implement it study is as interesting as going on a wild adventure without known destinations but we all love love what love the journey in the same way make it a journey and you will have a great one ....

Methods like Feynman learning techniques can easily be learned and understood....

 Thanks : )  

Social Work

Hi dear friends   : )

  Selfless service for the welfare of others is called social work and that means you experience the deep satisfaction. And that's how social work began' s .   It doesn't take any investment of our time and money but it takes investment of hope and smile oh yes and that's it. Gift smile and for that help yourself by helping others first and that's exactly what increases your speed and your capacity concentration rises up and you work with its' own convenience. And that's the way to be "genius a secret " right. try it the person with smile and help is like a super hero that we all are aren't we.You know how to handle what and that helps us in scheduling our every work not just with reference time but with our will : )

Trust is the best hope we can gift it to some one who needs it most : )  

Keep smiling : )

Genius in action

Hi dear friend ,

 Do everything differently Think differently, Be always working make your work a fun game you always play. Don't much care for surroundings. 

mAkE your surroundings not affect you. But you affect it by your ultimate Positivity.

Power of Positivity. Look always fresh before you meet anyone.

Be Energetic, work out and make your physique follow you. Have patience and Dare for the challenges. Always be cool minded and never mind anything. Practice hard what ever you learn and question every thing in your mind as it is the quickest way to approach a focus and great deal in learning comes from it.

          : )  Always Smile and let others smile because of you respect every work and take challenges to learn each single work. It will be more than what you want. Thanks and respect geniuses .........

 

How to learn anything in fastest way

Hi all my dear Friends : )

  The best and the fastest way to learn any thing is like multiplying the things and ideas as what if you learnt that sphere is common Question it that common in what ?

 Then you certainly got few answers that it is common in case of atoms and the shape of planets and natural satellite and stars okay so why it is so why not other shape like hexagon and or any alien shape you can guess. So you questioned it the answer came as because at sub atomic level there are the things that happening is affecting it and the shape in geometry due to curves in space became more like sphere or alike it.

 So basically we are interested in is Questioning and don't make a mind set before what it is but with open mindedness include your every work with it relate even your distractions with it and you see that you are not adding but multiplying in your progress.

Q Meet peoples who are perfect and involve in that kind of similar work and make your surrounding environment in search of it you will learn very very quickly that particular concepts. Grasp all the much information as much as you can and let it process and be the part of your work you will rapidly speeding up.

 Don't compare yourself with any other  who is doing it perfect and you are not because you are learning and it will slowly becomes like back counting of maths to counting or playing your genius game in which you are master. To become perfect you have to always learning and relate all your fun with it and when you spend time with that work more to more it will multiplying your knowledge about it more to more. 

Let's live it dear.

Your friendKeep smiling  : )

Power of Positivity

Hello all my dear friends : )

                                  + + + + + + + ++ + ++ + ++ + ++ + ++ + + + 

  The power of Positivity +

  So what it is?
It is you it is me and it is how and when we feel happy by doing "Unconditional Work".

So how to be positive and i ask why to be positive ? 

Positivity is the state of mind in Energy, Self confidence and when there is no place for i we have  our completeness with us.

It doesn't mean that we donot have any problems but we donot afraid from our problems we learn and solve them we might fail dozens time but we learn from that effort dozens time in each attempt.   The one who 

             "NEVER GIVE UP"

Never loose even on loosing because they learn work to learn. If you work to earn you can earn less or more its dependent. But when we earn for those who are part of us we learn and that smile and that satisfaction then we feel unconditional love and faith and proud and the real observation by being in different reference of time and place  : )

                    

                          + Let's do an imaginary experiment +

I request my friend that if possible take few deep breath and then start as it helps in getting relax and little require for our imaginary experiment. + Get involved +

Ok now you are a rich person you have a Giant house and good family you have all your rich friends in surrounding. Everything is best on its own and you all smile and feel happy no desire have fulfillment but still when you go on your Balcony you feel not good and feel disturbed and full of anger. As you look few poor peoples in their small houses and their children cry from hunger and few peoples are sick and ill treated by others no one smile but cry and tears are continue. Then how you feel not good  'right'

So you change your place of living by not understanding what to do. So you go on a happy place where everyone is good and healthy they talk of health and are sweet nature and respect you a lot. When you stand near your balcony you still see the small houses and not so rich peoples but are good and always smile and happy and then you feel great and fresh in your balcony just by changing place you see if someone is ill treated there peoples oppose that and they teach each other if some one is sick there they go and ask about there health. So now the day came and you have to return to that place that makes you disturb so you have two options + 

+ first that you don't go back to that place and stay here that you think at the same time and probably right.

Or second a daring option that you return back and make your homes a little bigger and make the entire place your own home your own peoples if some one is sick you go and ask about there health if kids cry from hunger think of some method and serve them food and think of permanent solution to make that place happier and healthier. Work to unite the peoples and gift Hope to them "Hope of change Hope of being the change" I read a thought somewhere that 

 "Miracles do occur but one has to work hard for them to happen" 

 Use your patience and develop it use your practice and work to increase it when your surrounding smile and have hope and they work with devotion then you feel relax and satisfaction is the return gift for you. Say thanks and gift smile to peoples you hardly  or never say like cobbler where you go to polish your shoes, Teachers to being with you Family that you love them care them , Friends that you have in all phases in your life , Gift smile to your co workers and appretiate their work and learn their good habits and peon that thanks and sweet smile. Smile cost one thing return smile and that makes you healthy wealthy and wise the famous line of a famous poem"Early to bed "   

Try this and you will make your surrounding positive it's not like you don't have problems but the way you choose to solve them changes with your mood and peoples whome you work with Be more than what is for you and live full + 

Feel the Confidence , courage and if like superheros like me so be the real one. By making and challenging the challenges that you are to solve them no matter how big they are you have ocen of patience and Everest of courage and will. You have the dare to work hard that no ailen could guess. yOU are the One who lives for all and in all you are considered already. Be think full and work and smile and smile and gift smile and smile 

Don't afraid of being wrong or right. Think and then act. Make your thoughts under your control and practice that with patience. And don't forget your friend "me" Ok : )

: )   Keep smiling Be positive

How to always smile : )

''When we work too much and still can share credit with others then you will have the reason of smile and it may most complex one too"

Hi dear friend

   To work is the wisdom but that work affected you matters too. So when that effect got up its peak then you have to handle the work and yourself. In a calm and patiently manner because  Patience is the key to open up your health of smile and that treasure can help you by sharing it more and you worthly achieve the wonder of your aura. Not let any thing disturb the peace of mind. And that can only be done by having yourself get patient make it fun.
There are always two ways to do anything first by laughing and second by 'weeping'. So you are no. 1 So choose no. 1 .    By weeping  scientifically you are disturbing your peace of mind and work will get damage. So and so.         By by  "laughing"  : ) you make your mind healthy and happy. Come on can you imagine that you are disturbed and you can help someone get back their smile no its not possible. You have to be happy and work full then you can change the surrounding of that person and let them hope and trust on their self that satisfaction is  what exactly what is called  ""Smile""  so keep smiling can be possible by share and spread smiles.
Lets be logical this time in our prospect imagine what happens when you are reading a joke or see a face of innocent smiles and about joker show we all smile so how could they create that actually the true smile and happiness is with in us just we allow it to come unconditionally and it all happens so its our beauty enhancer and our lovely one.... Start by your stand by mode and make your surrounding peoples happy by chance in future if you got upset that will set your mood up up and up. As you created your surrounding like that. so logic works don't find and rush to find happiness in your boring you find happiness in smiling you humurous you make everything smile if some problem come so say you are ready to gift that problem a smile and its solution that will definetly work .  Smile also help to make our face glow and make you energetic if you feel tired then just allow yourself to get recover and remember that you have smile.
 I recite a poem for you
 "  In a little summer i got cooler, In a little summer i got cooler
     When overload comes i handle that with my smile and it becomes calmer,
It creates hope and hope creates me, I spread smile and smile comes to me.
Oh my family my global world i am here to share my work and to smile.
When i work too hard and ready to share it with all that how my smile vanish all fear
fear to loose. I win as i won my smile. Oh dark night i will wait for sun shine. "
When i work and i feel to much happy i work more and as much as you work hard that much confidence comes to you that the reason of achievement i am little conservative but i allow my smile to come. In my work its all fun what ever i want to do i do with it if i want to play i play with it problem always comes to make us more stronger and with that. fill the gap of yours and you can smile.

Keep smiling : )

Overcome your problem

Hello my   ''dear friend''

What is difficult in this time as when you came in search of its solution. You will surely get its solution.May by someone else or by your self. Trust me 

 

The problem in the past may be the reason of the difficult time or the upcoming one also created its environment or it is also possible that what you are facing now that you consider your difficult time.

I have a small list that makes problem in life for you and i will try to share my ideas and i want from you to consider yourself with these problems :

•  My home work problem.
• I don't know how to comb my hair.
• I will not eat this i will eat that.
• I want that toy.
• Mom can you please help me.
• Dad can you please take me out from.

oh holy shit, today its rainy day how can we go for the picnic.

etc etc etc and etc.sorry if it is irritating you.But You will surely say that's not my problem these all are kiddy type problems not mine so why i am giving you this list because there you are we all started as a kid and we all play, enjoy, learn and tense too. But as we grow we all just busy in thinking what he /she will think of me or why i am not getting that or why the world don't  consider my intelligence or my talent or why i am not able to do that work.

These are the basics of all the problems in our life. so finally where is the solution. 

In you either find the way or create the way and my dear friend never think of to loose your patience. As most of the people loose patience when they are close to their destination. So change the state of your mind and just go alone for some time if possible join a activity and in that particular time give your all the effort and dedication in doing and learning that like if you are interested in music go and learn its lessons go out but try not to talk much with peoples and just give nature and yourself time you will soon get out from that state of mind. And what about the problem so i just want to say one thing problem only come to those who want to work or are working. So its solution is in you i can't say if some one help you or not but you get a strong support from yourself. Don't feel alone even in my case the plants, stars and the wind is also my friend enjoy the time share your everything with them learn to be patience and like the nature who listen you and just listen you who teach you to listen and my dear friend some time you can't find the solution of the problem by living in 2 D and solving a problem like 3D for you. give time and give smile be a observer of this time so that you can help others. And try to join something and give your every thing to that and you will soon get out from your problem. That will recognize your potiential. Keep smiling and stay involved.

Ur friend Om